Manpravah - Express yourself.....

A lady with many faces.  A short story of 22 year varsha, she came to Mumbai after completing her education. She is only child to her parents. Her parents started noticing behavior changes like her way of talking, eating and walking.  She was shy since her childhood but sudden change in her behavior was seen after coming back to Mumbai. She use to forget her way and her belongings too. Her aggression was scary. One incident in which I just asked her to avoid doing mess in kitchen after eating and her reaction to which was extreme. She throw away glass bottles and food and was shouting with abusive words. She was shy girl and introvert. Her talking style was very soft and slow. It was her first time that she reacted on me. I didn't responded to her because I could feel something was wrong. Same day  while dinner her father  asked about her reaction and she started laughing that I didn't do anything like that, i was sleeping whole day because i was not feeling well. We...

A girl in a city. Meghna (Name changed) very bold, extrovert, smart, tall and with attractive personality. She came to Mumbai from south India for work. She always wanted to stay at big, sparking City. She was fed-up with remote and local life of very small village. So after completing her education she convenience her parents and brother to stay at Mumbai for job. Because of her rigid behavior, they gave her permission to stay at Mumbai.  She came to Mumbai and started working at BPO. This new city was like magical world for her. Meghana use to travel,explore each and every famous part of Mumbai. She was enjoying her life and was very happy with her job and this new life. At first to travel alone in this new big city was difficult. But as the time pass,  she was getting use to crowds and streets of Mumbai. She use to go out every night with her office friends for night parties. In influence of friends she started drinking and smoking. After few months she started drinking alc...

Complaining and negative thinking pattern can lead to depression. Our thinking patterns plays and important role for emotions and behaviors. We all do many complains on our daily life. It's our reaction. By expressing complains we feel relief and gets sympathy from others. It's fine to complain sometimes but excess can be really harmful to mental health. Complains rewire your brain for negativity. Brain don't like to work harder and finds a efficiency in work When you repeat a behavior, such as complaining, your neurons branch out to each other to ease the flow of information. This makes it much easier to repeat that behavior in the future. And it becomes habit to complain. That's the reason complains are easy then thinking positive. It's easy to complain but it as bad impact on mental health and body. In research it was found that complaining damage some parts of brain too. When you complain it release stress hormones in your body. Stress hormones increase your blo...

Prevention is the best cure!! Sheetal is an energetic, beautiful and Smart woman.  Use to work with private companies. Sheetal was a workaholic woman. She used to stay alone in Mumbai due to work. After her Master's, she shifted to Mumbai for Job and a good salary package. She was happy with her job and her lifestyle. Her daily routine was fixed, morning to evening office and at night home or sometimes clubbing with friends. There was no fixed time for working. Though her daily life was mechanical still she used to like it because of her paycheck. It has been 5 years since she was working with this company. Due to the sudden rise in the number of covid patients, the government decided to lockdown. The company decided to stop working for 1 month and later everything will be fine. She was quite disturbed at home alone due to the habit of going out and attachment toward work. It was suffocating for her to be alone at home. But one fine day most of the people received a mail from the c...

           February 2022 Want to know why social media is escaping window for emotions ? Social media is effective way to connect with people with just one click. Social media provide you with all news going around the world. It is very easy to reach out to the people with just one click. Everything in limit is fine until it leads to extreme obsession or a medium to hide from their own problem or negative emotions.  Social media affect your life. Social media not only impact your work but it affects your subconscious mind as well. This social media design to be addictive. It is so engaging that it make you to scroll down and down without conscious attention.  Phone is a medium to connect with people but now a days people use phone to avoid interaction with other. Sometime even they don’t realize that they are not avoiding them it’s just their social anxiety avoiding people.  Social media increases the risk of depression, anxiety, stress ...

      Do you think others can hurt you? Change the specs and see the change. (Perspective) February 2022 Key points ·       Perspective towards certain situation or people matters.   ·       Rational thinks helps you to make better decisions. ·       Identify your thinking patterns to analysis and respond to others in more positive way. Due to lock down, some have being with their love ones for longer time and some were alone without family. Covid - 19 have brought some people close or separated them completely. Many expectations were built as well as broken during this lock down.   Are you flexible?   Flexible means not in physical terms but mentally. Have you asked this question to yourself? For example do you want certain things to go according to your wish? Or do you want your partner to behave the way you want? Certain people get mad if things don’t go ac...